An angel, I met...!!

It was just about that day when I decided to write about her. She came into my life unplanned and certainly got all my attention towards her. She was not just another person in my life, but became the reason of happiness for me. I never thought that she would bring so much liveliness in my life, but it just happened. Now you must be thinking that who is she? Actually even I don’t know about her much but we use to talk sometimes about our daily routines and little gags. Well this blog is not to define what is going in my life, it is just about her, her beautiful eyes, her sweet tone of speech, her smile, the way she understands me and the extent of her maturity. Her expressive nature made me think about the purest soul on earth her, her smile that drives me to the most beautiful memories that I could use to make the garland of. Her remembrance makes me smile all day long she is one of the sweetest person I have ever met.

I don’t know much about her that is because we don’t talk so often, and I guess that is because we are very busy in our daily schedules. But I just want to tell her that, I just wanna know you better. I want you to give me a chance to know you better.

Every morning I wake up thinking about you, brings smiles on my face and makes my day a perfect one, that usually don’t happens with me, or I can say that it never happened to me before. I still have your picture in that blue dress and you look so pretty. I love the way you say OMG...!! I love it seriously J I also love it when you advice me to remain happy always Though I never tried to implement this on my life, but will surely do so. The way you write “SUP” is awesome J. I still remember your picture in which you seem like a mermaid and I told you about that. It is about a year before we met and now after one year I want to tell you that with time relationships strengthen itself and our relationship became more pure.

I know there are no perfect love stories in today’s scenario, but we must not believe in stories, because real life creates our own stories, you once told me that you wait for the person who will fill your empty diary and will write about you, I just wanted to fill a corner of my part in that empty diary of yours. I don’t know what I feel for you, but I definitely felt about writing for the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. I use to call you an Angel and believe me you are none less than an angel. May be I am just another person in your life, but you belongs to a crucial page of the book of my life. I regret for not respecting you sometimes but I don’t regret for my feelings. I know that a beautiful girl, who certainly waiting for her prince charming would never even think about a guy like me but then its my destiny.

I still remember when you called me on my birthday, when I was eagerly waiting for your call, and made my day so special I wont forget that day ever.

The most beautiful thing about you is that you never disrespected my feelings, you consider me a true friend, and that is what I like about you. I don’t hope anything from you, just thank you to be in my life and make it more cheerful and colourful.

For Kin....

My angel....!!

My Brother's tour to Brazil....!!

Hello guys, long time, no blog, here I am with my next blog...!!
Well this blog is just the simple narration of my brother's very first tour to Brazil. This blog goes on as it was narrated to me by my brother in a sequence.
Well why did I choose to write about the trip? This is because, when you will read it you will get to know about it  :).
The narration goes like this:
I caught the flight to Dubai, as there is no direct flight to Brazil from India. Further, from Dubai, I flew in a Emirates, to Brazil. Well I was nervous as this was my very first tour to an unknown country. I was visiting Brazil for the installation of a software. Visiting some other country for the first time not only makes you nervous but afraid too. I was to meet Mr. Babosa who was the concerned authority of our corporation in Brazil.  He was waiting for me at the SO PAULO international Airport.  The flight was undoubtedly comfortable, It was a cloudy weather while we were passing over Africa. Flying through the clouds is an awesome experience. The weather was fine till we were flying over the oceans, but suddenly a change in weather was observed. It was around 7 p.m. when the climate suddenly turned bad, it was a scary scene visible from the window of the plane, lightning and thunder, and a strong storm gave all the passengers, a bad omen. We were about to enter the Latin continents of America, but the storm was the barrier between me and my destination. Adding to my fear, the fact that our plane was flying continuously for 17 hours(from Dubai to Brazilian Islands). Though it was an Emirates, but still it was flying for 17 continuous hours, the fact made me more nervous, and it was the first time I was afraid while flying. Then the Brazilian weather forecast announced a serious Hailstorm at some coordinates ahead in the moving direction of the flight. Now, the buzz went into a pin drop silence. I can clearly see the diverse crowd boarded in the flight, but the expressions were not at all diverse, after hearing the announcement, my feelings turned into aghast. I was stunned and was waiting for the flight to land. The pilots of the flight were in a dilemma too. They announced that the flight will divert to  rio de janerio. Passengers were confused regarding the extent of situation getting even worst. Then came the turning point, the pilots changed their mind again and decided hardheartedly that they will land in So paulo intersecting the hailstorm. It made me even more mad. I was just waiting for a sigh of relief but I guess it was the time for some hiccups. The Emirates entered into the storm just like a bull towards the Ass :p. The beautiful emirates started shaking, it shivered like hell. The people who were basically multilingual shouting like anything. At that moment, I forgot two words , "diversity" and "Multilingual". It was more like Humans in trouble rather than people of different countries. On the other hand, at so paulo, the announcements were made that the particular flight (Emirates) was about to land in Rio due to an abrupt diversion because of a hailstorm. Mr Babosa  also got confused. But finally the Flight landed in so paulo. And it was a sigh of relief for me.

After my landing, it was plenty adventure for me on my first trip. I walked along the corridor and reached the exit of the airport, but I was unable to find Mr. babosa, I did not know what to do, well the people around me were speaking Portuguese, not a single one of them knows english this again inflated my heart rate, but i summoned my will and gathered some ability to think the solution. I went outside and saw a phone booth, when i reached near it I found that the local people were using some sort of card to make calls, I smiled in my mind and took my credit card and inserted it into the machine. The attempt failed. I became more upset, nervous, afraid, worried, aghast, despondence, gloom, and sad, I don't know more adverbs. Basically i was lost in the crowd but still had hope. Finally I saw a board which gave me the happiest moment of my life, the board says "MAY I HELP YOU" of course you can I shouted in my mind. I rushed towards the entering gate, I found a lady at the reception, I asked her about the procedure to make calls, she provided me the information like: You need to dial 21 first, then the provider code and finally the company code, she informed. I took the information and rushed towards the phone booth, dialed Mr Babosa, and finally that was the end of my misery. Hello he said from the other end, he told me the place where exactly he was standing and finally we met.

Although it was quite an adventurous experience for me, it was fun as well. It made me more confident among myself, and the next time I visited Brazil it was very calm and easy for me to access the beautiful country. The country which have large area but small population, beauty at its best and greenery at its maximum quality makes Brazil, and of course we cannot forget soccer :), by the way another interesting fact about the trip was that i was walking with my warm clothes on, and Brazilian girls were walking in the mini skirts at the same time ;).
Overall it was fun termed with adventure, accompanied by fear :).


So that was the story when my Brother visited Brazil for the very first time. I hope you guys liked it.

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VJ
CHEERS....!! 

ROSMANTA CHURCHILL....!!

It was raining heavily, when I saw her searching for cover, but she was unable to do so. That first glance, and I fell into love with her. Although I knew that I will never be able to get her but I also knew that she was beautiful.  Her big and beautiful eyes compelled me to continue my stare at her. I just gave my everything and got to know her name. Her name was Rosmanta Churchill, and she was a christian, and I was an anti one. My face  turned gloomy. She was looking even more beautiful through the droplets of water, water seems cascade...!! Rosmanta lives nearby and I followed her, she noticed me and turned back, They were blue, yes her Eyes were blue, like the sky and her face was adorable like nature. My heartbeat increased and my legs started shivering. I was in a dilemma, whether I was afraid or I was nervous, whatever it was but I was exaggerated with that feeling. She glanced at me and went again on her way.

The next day I went on the road beside her house, where she can see me from her window, and I waited for hours, but she did not sneaked through her window. Then finally she came at her window and saw me standing there, she was confused, so as I, neither of us knew what to do at that particular moment. Then I remembered the famous saying "FORTUNE FAVORS THE BRAVE". I raised my hand up to say Hi, she did not responded and shut the window. I was broken and sad, I even cried.  I did not gave up, I went there so many times but when I realized that she will never accept my love, I Gave up. After this Incident, My days became Monotonous and my life got filled with boredom and gloom.  And I never went to that road again, and sustained my small world of dark. I left my home and went far away to my brother's place. I never returned.
That person who was narrating his ode never turned up again. And he sort of Vanished.

10 MONTHS LATER....!!
I came back to my place, it was creepy and unordered. I was sad and still in despondence   One day while walking alongside the road, I met my neighbor Sameer, he asked me that where I have been, he also told me that a girl regularly came and stood beside my home, and kept a letter there. I was amazed, astonished and curious to know about that girl and where are those letters. He told me that he did not know her name but he did collected those letters. I was mad to read those letter, and he finally handed them over to me. The letter named ROSMANTA CHURCHILL....!! My eyes got wet, wet with the tears of joy. and the letter said :
Hi, My name is Rosmanta churchill, remember that day when it was raining heavily and you were just standing beneath it like some crazy person, and  staring at me without a pause, I just fell in love with you that day, love at first sight may be, I wanted to tell you but I was afraid.  Now, You must be thinking that then why did I ignored you when you came at my place every day? I was scared, I never went through this feeling before, and till the time I gathered courage to tell you about my feelings, you left. There is another reason to hide my feelings. But if you want to know that secret, you will have to meet me, If we meet, that will be our destiny and if we do not, then love was never there between us. I love you........ROSMANTA....!!
My feeling turned into aghast, I was null, that letter took away from me, my ability to think. It was again a dilemma with me. I just ran and rushed to her house, in the process I collided with a car and broke my arm, but when I reached there, I found that there was No one. Her house was locked, and after all my introspection, I found that she left away. I did not know where my love story would end but My destiny ended. I did not knew where she was and how to find her. My heart broke again.  After two days I received a letter. It was named ROSMANTA CHURCHILL. It said, this is my last letter, and I do not want to marry anyone else. I identified where she is. And I took my final step to meet her.
When  I woke up I found myself at a beautiful place, with a very lethal situation prevailing within me. It seemed like I was unconscious and fatigue. And when I stood, a voice came.... Rosmanta....and she was standing in front of my eyes, her blue eyes shined, and a glimpse of smile made me alive. We just looked into each other's eyes and then We kissed.....that was the most beautiful moment that I lived after my death.

NEWS HEADLINES WERE:
A BOY SUCIDE  , IDENTITY NOT REVEALED.
ANOTHER HEADLINES WERE:
A GIRL NAME ROSMANTA DIED 8 MONTHS AGO DUE TO BREAST CANCER....!!

Hope you liked this one....!!
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cheers
V.J..!!

DILEMMA OF AN ENGINEER....!!

Who is an Engineer? An Engineer is a person, who is able to explore his mind, can work efficiently with machine and have the knowledge of gadgets, technology and other sciences. But we all must know, what now have became the exact definition of Engineering in India..!! An Engineer is a labor who possesses only one Brain but forced to use that as if he have many of them and can perform multitasking. Engineers here are not the normal people, believe me, they are extra ordinary because they are ordered to work continuously for six days without a pause, included they are provided with additive helps for academics  in the form of assignments. Yes, this is what we live for..!! okay I agree, we are okay with the assignment's thing, but then what about regular tests that are conducted instead of the internal examinations. Isn't that enough? no not at all because we have been given the tag of an ENGINEER, now any one can exert pressure upon us as we are capable of consuming it...! We can study six subjects with five units each, in just three months, which is said to be the semester of six months.
Engineers are advised to kill their livings of prestige and glory, the life of comfort and pleasure,  they are ordered to suppress our emotions and feelings, sentiments and odes with the burden of heavy books and bowed shoulders. It is quite simple, either do not let yourself into engineering or face all such hardships and difficulties that comes your way and tackle them bravely. Now the dilemma of an Engineer is, whether he lives his life or become an successful engineer. Another situation that prevails here is, according to the statistics 68% of the students are not even capable of being an engineer even after their training session.
Hence, the stubborn decision of the families, and implementations of their dreams on their children results into disasters. I should rather say that parents try to Impose their decision on their children in order to make them what they were never able to become in their lives. well writing such a harsh statement was not at all intentional,  it was just a heart feeling that comes out of most of the students who are forced into engineering by their parents. If we Introspect, the dilemma now dominates every student who is into engineering, because the level of syllabus is very standardized  and system of implementing policies are very basic.
According to some baseless policies, Engineering college pressurize students by implementing creepy policies and by creating an uncomfortable atmosphere. Students are not given chance to create an overall development of  their personalities by ignoring curricular activities. This dilemma follows  all level of hierarchy and exist at each level of college's system.
So in the end, all I want to tell you guys, who are thinking about to get themselves into engineering in their future is THINK TWICE AND ACT WISE, there are plenty of engineers in our country, in fact more than required. So do engineering only if you have complete interest in it, or you will also have to face the same dilemma. This is not to demoralize you guys, it is just to aware you that engineering is only and completely beneficial if you have certain levels of interest into the technical( core), science and Mathematics. Do not do it if you are only trying to prove your guts. Engineering is a very lucrative field but only if done with comprehension. Never let yourself fell into a dilemma that even I use to feel :) (sometimes). Other than this Engineers are smart people with good brains. So decision is your's. All what is important is that Live your life completely, because respect does not comes only to engineers or doctors, Instead it inherited, To gain respect is in your blood, if it is...!
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CHEERS.....!!
V.J

THE GIRL WITH GREEN EYES...!!

Ok, it is all about an evening, an evening that compelled me to
keep on thinking about her, thinking about her green eyes, her
innocent accent of speaking and about her injured foot. Ok let me
reduce your complexities regarding the situation I am talking about.
At a sunday evening, standing in front of Javed Habib's saloon
at Sonipat(Harayana)(India). Having discussions  with my
cousin brother regarding my future plans in life, I saw her, and it
felt like I want to see her again and again. Well I dont know why
is this so? But still it felt like......well well keeping my emotions
in control, let me tell you further. She was driving her black Activa
and just passed by us, and I just wished in my mind to see her again
knowing that it is not so possible to happen. So considering the
possibilities, me and my brother again went into our crucial discussions.
Although my wishes never come true, but dont know, what exactly
happened that day, guess what did I see,
Yes I saw her again Coming back towards us, she might be returning
to her home, My heart just melted, and my eyes got stuck to her.
yes and finally she looked at me and then we stared at each other
but, nice moments do not last for long, and never forever.
So she again focused on her driving and me on her :).

Now what, I was just looking at her beautiful green eyes and a big
sound startled me, And I saw her felling down, and my heart
climbing up in my throat. It was a guy with some lady sitting at
his back and their pulsar 180. He just rushed his bike into the
activa and just disappeared, probably he might got suggestions
from someone, how to save his life from there.
I just threw my expensive eye gear, and went towards the injured
activa and injured girl with the green eyes. As no one there came for
help, I realized, that I was standing in India. I feel sorry to say
this but I certainly have to. My brother lifted up the scooty, and
I went to the girl, She was in pain, but not more than me.. are you
fine, I asked, probably a stupid question that time. She spoke
in her majestic voice 'YES' and I just adored everything about her
I hold her hand, and helped her reached her drive, and then I saw
her injured foot, and my feelings turned into aghast. I spoke
'your foot, it is injured..!!' She replied in her firm voice, "Yes, it is
ok, it is just paining, but i will manage it, Thank you very much".
she spoke without a pause. but then it is the time to leave her hand
now, so I did it and helped her get back on her activa.

At last, she looked into my eyes, and I just saw her green eyes,
and our interchange of looks broke when she blink twice, and
said "Bye", "thank you again" were her last words to me, she started her
activa and went off, that time of my life was like, something
is being snatched from me, a very precious thing indeed. But that
is what all about, I din't asked her name, just
watched her going. she just went away and I wish I could meet her again
but again to say that it is not so possible...!!
Well the Irony is that these were the words that I said the last
and saw her, superstitions do exist.
I dont know why the event took place, but it certainly tought
me that how deep a feeling can be, and how sweet a presence
is....!! there are situations that are distinct, I mean they are more
than just attractions, these are feelings more than love, that cannot
be described..!! It is not just attraction, it is Obsession.
It is not for everyone, but is definitely for someone...!!


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VJ....Cheerz..!!

Confession : PLANNING AND SECURING FUTURE.

CONFESSIONS: PLANNING AND SECURING FUTURE..!!


Yes, if we are planning about securing our future, then no doubt we are confessing that we are committing mistake. What do we plan? another question, how can we secure our future? Ok let us try and negotiate regarding this, I asked few people that what are your future plans, one of them admitted that to get a government job and survive on pension afterwords..! Same question was asked to a wealthy man, What are your future plans? He replied, that I would print money till 40 and then retirement...! How simple was that? A multimillionaire was asked the same question then.. He proudly replied that I would replicate my wealth in the coming future..!! LOLZ..!
Now somebody please explain the people with such mentality, Do they have an confirmation that they could live till 40, or till the time they get retired, are they sure? They will be called almighty then...! and no doubt that millionaire will certainly take his wealth along with him..!
The concept is very simple, people in the run for becoming rich, wealthy and planing for their future that they think could be secured, forgets that they are just the puppets of the game. They did'nt even know that whether they will be alive the next day, neither do me or anyone of us  knows that we will be there till 40. By not considering it a negativity, we must realize that planning future is not the need, the need is to live life the fullest each day.

AN Engineering student was quite startled watching all his classmates getting quite serious regarding their jobs in future, Since all the engineers want to gain a prominent place in our society, well no doubt in this process, they forgets that they have a life to live. My motive and my message does not say that, we must not consider our future as important, but we must not take it so considerable that we may even loose the joy of livings. Yes we have a career to make, but more importantly we have a life to live.

Yes, sometimes it is a family pressure, to be an engineer or a doctor or a manager, which often kills the aspirations, and sometimes its just a stubbornness to become rich. But everyone ignores the style of living. Bounds now have dominated the working people, even to plan a holiday, or maybe they consider the foremost priority to plan their future. People agrees to live with a monotonous routine, but they are satisfied sacrificing their lifestyle. The studies or the jobs or any business all these things, never ever creates any sort of pressure on livings, but the truth is we ourselves pressurize us to be intensely involved in shaping our future. If people are greedy today, its accepted because they do not have any other choice else being greedy.

According to the mentalities, a secured future could provide all comforts, but have you ever thought that if you will not be there to take pleasure of the comforts that you have preserved for yourself then whatever you did throughout your life is all waste of time isnt it? Well discussing all this, is not the very utilization of time, but still an effort to change the way of thinking.

LIVE THE LIFE KINGG SIZE YOU NEVER KNOW THAT WHETHER YOU WILL BE THERE TO SEE A SECURED FUTURE, THATS NATURALLY A UNIVERSAL TRUTH THAT WE ARE UNAWARE OF DEATH,
as the death says
THE TIME MAY COME AND THE TIME MAY GO BUT I WILL COME FOREVER, and also not considering it as a negativity, we must start living each day of life, instead of worrying for our future, is we will live our fullest today we will automatically be able to create a good and secure future....!!


KEEP READING.......V.J CHEERS..!

My B.A.R.E.I.L.L.Y

Hey guys,
After getting myself involve in writing my  two blogs on the issues that are meant for social agenda, now its time for me to get you something new, something different.
This time I would like to throw some light on a small town with big hearts, BAREILLY(of course my HOMETOWN). Well this is something special for me, to write about my hometown, its simply an excitement.
To start with, let me tell you that Bareilly is a small town situated in north west uttar pradesh. Although its not that interesting for readers to read about a small town but this town is none less than a metropolitan.
If we consider the history of bareilly, its just vast I must say, according to the EPICS (MAHABHARATA), Bareilly  is the birthplace of DRAUPADI,  When yudhishthira became the king of Hastinapur, Draupadi became his queen.Not going deep into the history, Bareilly is standing on Ramganga river, and after the rohilla war it had been announced as the capital of ROHILLKHAND region. The British India baazar is the footprint that reveals the glorious rule of Britishers at the town. Besides all this bareilly is also called as BANS bareilly, factually its because it had been named after two prince BANSALDEV and BARALDEV, but practically its because its the centre for production of cane furniture.The city was discovered by MUKRAND RAI in 1657 later on handed over to Nawab Vazir of Awadh and then to the East India company and finally becoming an integral part of INDIA. Well coming out of the past, The status of the town was upgraded when its name was included in the COUNTER MAGNETS of the NCR or National City Region including some other towns namely kota, gwalior, hisar and.patiala.
Bareilly is also known as the NATH NAGRI, as this place is famous for the NATH temples that includes, ALAKHA NATH, TRIVATI NATH, MADHI NATH, DHOPESHWAR NATH, BANKHANDI NATH and PASHUPATI NATH. It is also famous for ALAH HAZRAT, Imam Ahmed Raza Khan Fazil-e-Barelvi's Dargah all over the world.

Now when we knew about some landmarks, let us know about the cultural activities that prevails here, there are four eminent personalities who can certainly prevail bareilly as thier hometown, the names includes,
PRIYANKA CHOPRA( former miss world and famous bollywood actress.)
WASIM BARELVI( world renowned urdu poet)
IMRAN KHAN( won a gold medal for shooting in New Delhi at 19th commonwealth games.)
well if we talk about amusement parks and the places to hang out, we dont need to worry because there are many of them, the list starts with FUNCITY and the BOOND water park, and we talk about the Malls and Multicomplexes, the me aware you guys, besides the AMRAPALI GROUPS, and the PHEONIX UNITED  MALL, there are many that are under construction like, Western mall( along with the wave cinemas), Aditya magnets( along with three screen PVRs), Jewels of India mall( suncity projects), Reliance starcity( JJ malls).
The present commercial complexes of the city includes Butler plaza, JJ mall, Vishal mega mart, CL mall( with showrooms like Adidas, Benetton, Jawed habib, weekender, reebok,  US polo assn, Louise philippe, pantaloons, Blackberry's, LEVI's, MUFTI, Peter England Mc Donalds, and many more.
Well my town had never let me unsatisfied regarding sports. Major sports stadiums includes,  Dori lal agarwal sports complex, Major Dhyanchand sports stadium(cantoment), Cricket academy of Bareilly(The CAB) and the Bareilly club's cricket association.
Well thats all not folks, lets talk about the EDUCATION department,  MJP Rohilkhand university, Indian Veterinary research institute, Central Avian research institute, IET( Institute of engineering and technology), SRMS institute of Engineering and Medical sciences, Invertis University, are amongst the best Institutions in Uttar pradesh.
That is why my bareilly makes me proud of it, and to be a civilian of this town makes me proud.
Hope the people of BAREILLY get to know their town much better after reading this.




KEEP READING
VJ...!!

THE TABOO.

A creation made by GOD, "HUMAN BEINGS", These are the "Living beings" who are loaded with emotions, feelings and sentiments, for which they are called humans. Since their birth, till their death, they pass through several stages and experiences several phases of life. In this long chase of life, they explores themselves, some becomes achievers, some becomes admirer while some, so called "losers". They learns to evolve from a child to a Man, they learn to sacrifice and to protest. Humans, also known as the social animals. They always fought for their greed and needs, unaware that to place themselves, to find themselves, what have they done. Hence, they are the part of a TABOO. Crawling for the salvation from their sins, but the bane of taboo, is the response from GOD.
TABOO: If there is a taboo on a subject or activity, its a social custom to avoid doing that activity or talking about that subject, because people finds them embarrassing, or offensive.
Yes this the actual meaning of TABOO. We discussed about the "HUMAN BEINGS", about their sins, their salvation from their sins. Let us know how this vile and lethal taboo, had exploited human values and thus became a bane for humanity.
MAURITANIA...!
This place is situated in west Africa, with an estimated population of 30 lacks, and area of about 1,030,700 sq. kilometers, people of Mauritania follows Islam and hence its an Islamic republic, Arabic is the mother language. Now let us know the fact of taboo here,
In this nation, women are considered beautiful only if they gains a weight over 90 kilograms. Yes this the fact and due to this each and every female species want to gain more and more weight to defeat taboo. Hence proper elaboration proclaims that, if the girl or the women are slim and under weighed are likely to be unattractive here. A male species would never marry a girl unless she is fat enough. Well that is the present situation at Mauritania. If you think that is all, you might be in a misconception, no doubt that girl child abduction is illegal in this nation, but other creepy traditions do exist here. GIRL FEEDING, yes girl feeding, in this activity, the mothers feed their girl child more than their diets and capacities, just to make them fat, because according to the customs that prevails her " a fat lady is not a bad lady", unaware of the pains and emotions of that small child, who is bearing all sorts of foolish traditions, again, i would call such traditions as " BASELESS TRADITIONS", in Mauritania this custom is known as "GAWAAZ".
Similarly, let us consider a developed country, after all TABOO can be anywhere around the globe.
UNITED STATES OF AMERICA(USA).
We are all aware of the fact ,what and where America stands today. Well, a just opposite situation prevails here in America, here the situation of TABOO is;
women who are fat are considered unattractive here, and slim women gains, Glamor, Fame and Success, while this situation prevails in most of the countries of the world, they want to regain their slim and fit body to defeat taboo.
Hence we saw the stories of two different nations, where people of both the nations are making efforts to defeat taboo. But one must be aware that  the effect of Taboo also response back. Lets go back to Mauritania.
The "GAWAAZ"( girl feeding) has now became o social issue in Mauritania, yes, its admitted that excessive girl feeding is no less than " child abuse" and hence the government of the country declared it as Illegal. Now what?? the traditions have to be followed, always...!! if a girl is not fat or over weighed, she would not get married. simultaneously, all the females were hacked by obesity and if the law against "GAWAAZ" is passed then the coming population would not be obese.
Hence Mauritanians have to face challenges in their coming future, will the male species marry a slim and fit girl in this nation?? Yes this is the question that "TABOO" has left the people of Mauritania with, and no doubt that it is the matter of great concern for them.
O n the other hand the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA(USA), was highlighted in the media of all the countries around the globe. According to the local census American girls comprises of the "tiny majorities" who were pregnant at just the age of 16 years. This happened only because of the exposure of their slim body," that is what the women of America did to defeat TABOO," isn't it??. Well now, it was taboo's turn. The girls who were not even completely matured were getting pregnant and that too with an alarming rate. Experimentation with "puberty" has now made them suffer, and eventually that is how taboo responded in the developed America.
Therefore, both the countries, mentioned above tried to "defeat" taboo, but at the end it was "taboo" that dominated them. Hence we cannot fight Nature,"HUMANS" just try to simulate their intellectuals and get punished for breaking the laws of GOD and NATURE altogether.

IS SPIRITUALITY, OUR WEAKNESS??

INDIA, the "INCREDIBLE INDIA" mainframes an image that reveals the glory and purity of the culture that exist here. No doubt, that spirituality is the foremost priority of every Indian, but superstitions also do exist, and the old traditions which are considered to be the ''TRIBUTE" for Indian culture strongly emphasize on the way of living of the Indian population. The chronology that represent us since the Indian history till the time when revolution occurred proclaims the heritage and hierarchy of the people's intellects and thinking. But all apart, is this is the appropriate way of being spiritual or involving ourselves in spiritual activities.?? Did spirituality had dominated us somehow?? Are we caught in the cobwebs of over spirituality or excessive traditional methods?? Yes, these are the questions that comes into my mind? The most important one is,  Is spirituality somehow, becoming our weakness?

Well let us try and negotiate regarding these questions, if we talk about the facts and figures, we know better that anybody else do, that what are the levels of superstitious beliefs, submerged in the the seniors since the times of our predecessors. Hence these superstitions had them weak at some point or the other, and this specimen reflects in the major population of our country. These superstitions had devastated the level of confidence among themselves.

Most of the population of our country, including the literate and illiterates are suppressed by their spiritual views and what soever this might be the reason for the "curve" in the backbone of  economical and financial status of India. No doubt, our "culture" has a strong importance on any Indian, but to let it effect our livings, is not an appropriate option.

Scientifically,

Ideology of spirituality can never harm any religion or casts or the economy of any country, but the way of being spiritual can surely do so. We can compare science with humanities but spirituality is not a commodity that could be compared in fact it owns a special place in our country. Generally spirituality also comes under "philosophy" but it is not defined under philosophy because it beholds an prior value among the Indians, we cannot consider spirituality as a study, whereas we use to study philosophy that includes "anthropology" "humanities" and "ethics". hence spirituality comes naturally but is profitable only when correct methodology is considered. 

As far as "COMMERCIALIZATION"  on spirituality is concerned, it had became a proliferating business in the 21st century. People of our country might have some "fanatic" views, that holds a huge importance for them, but they are unaware that they are being  cheated. To commercialize on such fanatic and superstitious views the "saints" and the "tantrics" are on the "cloud nine".

For an instance, you wont find enough crowd in an educational speech,debates or knowledge based seminars, but yes, yes can certainly find "more than enough" in a "satsang or katha". So eventually this elaborates the levels of spiritualism that exist in our country. If we count on the millionairess of the coming future, we will surely be counting all the "babas" and the "swamis" in the list.

Bitter, but the truth is the fact that we are making ourselves weak instead of gaining some positive energy out of our environment, A true fact recorded that " we do not want to give our 100 percent effort in anything instead we give our 50 percent and wait for the rest 50 percent to get accomplished though our luck, and if not by our luck, than we run towards the powers that we consider that exists". I recon to call such traditions as "BASELESS TRADITIONS" that unfortunately, inherited in us from our ancestors or predecessors. 

So, this blog was not against spirituality what soever, its just an initiative to spread awareness regarding the way we involve ourselves in spirituality.

So the answer to questions that had been put up,must be acknowledged by our own intellectuals, all i want to say is " ITS JUST THE WAY WE THINK,COULD BRING CHANGES.